
“I don’t know if it’s going to work out, but just trying is exciting”.
These were the words of Tom Good in the first episode of the hit TV series, The Good Life, first screened in the 1970s about a man who gives up his job to attempt self-sufficiency with his wife, Barbara.
It always strikes me how little careers and career challenges have changed over the decades. The things we worry about now are the same as 50 years ago and will probably be the same in the next 50 years.
Fear of the unknown tends to be the major concern when considering changing jobs, even if it’s not as drastic as contemplating living off the land.
How will you know if this new job will suit you? How will you adapt to the new work environment? What if you find it too difficult or too boring?
Fear of the unknown can paralyse us into staying with the familiar, even if it leaves us feeling unfulfilled or unhappy. Being risk-averse is a human trait that can hamper career decision making, so that we tend to default back to our so-called ‘comfort zone’, which, in reality, can be very uncomfortable.
It’s strange when you think about it… how did we find ourselves in this situation? As children and young adults we tried out new things all the time. We moved from school to university, to our first jobs. We probably had to move location, move house, make new friends and so on.
These former decisions that we made can be very helpful in guiding us in making today’s decisions by reflecting on how we did it, what/who influenced us and what was our motivation.
It’s likely that we had less ‘baggage’ and fewer factors to consider when we were younger. Perhaps we had no comparison to compel us to step back and stay where we were, rather than make the leap into the unknown. Maybe we had nothing to lose – if it doesn’t work out so be it. Put it down to experience.
No one knows if anything is going to work out in the end, but there are ways you can tread a little more cautiously than your younger self, to reduce the risk, but still retain the excitement of a change:
- Use your research skills to investigate a new career by reading current and similar vacancy information to find out what the role involves as far as possible.
- Check out the employers – what does their website say about them? What are they talking about on social media? How many people do they employ and in what types of roles?
- Make use of AI – ask it about careers of interest and associated careers that maybe you hadn’t considered; ask about potential employers (large and small); find out what the key duties are likely to be, etc.
- Reflect on your own skills, interests and values to determine whether the career(s) you’re considering really do align with your own capabilities and motivators. A career coach, as well as some online assessments can help you with this process.
- Connect with and contact professionals already in these roles – alumni from your university or research institute might be a good start. Ask them for information you can’t easily find from other sources, e.g. how did they get into this role? What skills were particularly valuable? Any surprises? Any advice?
- If you’re planning to move countries, contact people who have already moved there to get some personal/practical advice as well as using sources such as Euraxess.
- If possible, see if you can arrange an internship/placement or work-shadowing opportunity to get more practical insights – even if a job doesn’t emerge from the experience, you’ll have done some valuable networking. If you realise this career isn’t for you it’s also helped you to narrow down your options.
- Attend events or join professional associations – if appropriate. Some professions require particular affiliations or certifications and so their associated professional bodies can be a good starting point to find out about how to get into these careers.
- If it’s comfortable for you, confide in one or two selected friends/colleagues you think would be willing to offer you support mentally/emotionally/practically. I’ve always found it good to talk and share my ideas/concerns with others rather than keeping it all inside – and I’ve reciprocated too.
- It makes a big difference if you’re leaving your current role because you want to, rather than because you have to. However, any change/transition comes with its associated ups and downs, so be prepared to ride the roller coaster for a while until things settle down.
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